Communication 372 – Theory and Research in Intercultural
Communication
Theories
of Identity
Objectives for
UNIT on Identities
Intro: In the first set of note for
this unit, you read about social and personal identities. Even there, we began
to move into theories about identity. In this webpage, I will summarize three
theories of identity (moving some material from yesterday’s webpage to complete
this page!). We will then begin to apply some of the concepts from these pages
to specific identities. Objectives (and Quixam
Review):
·
What are the main
approaches of the communication theory of identity and co-cultural theory (in
terms of humanistic, scientific, critical).
·
How would
traditional social scientific, humanistic, or critical (e.g., feminist)
scholars look at something like sex/gender and communication or interracial
communication?
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Social identity theory: What are the main assumptions of SIT as they apply to
intergroup communication? What is the 3-step process that occurs in
communication (know the difference b/t the terms).
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What are the 3
influences on any interaction, according to Baldwin’s model of intercultural comm (B& Hecht, 2003)
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CTI: Be able
to define and apply the four levels (plus 2 Baldwin adds) of identity from CTI
(personal, dyadic, relational, communal, mediated, policy/law)
·
CTI: List
and describe some of the main aspects of identity (salience versus centrality,
scope, intensity, content versus relationship, avowal versus ascription).
·
CTI: Be able
to describe an identity you hold in
terms of some of the assumptions of CTI. Nice application essay topic!
·
CCT: Be able
to describe the overall approach of the theory—what it is trying to do.
·
CCT: Be able
to explain specific communication behaviors a co-cultural member (btw, what’s
that, according to Orbe!) might take in
terms of the 6 “universal influences.” Nice application essay topic!
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Sex/gender:
What is the difference between these two terms?
·
Difference vs.
Power approach: How does each explain difference between men’s and women’s
communication (note—same ideas might apply, for example, to Black-White
communication!)
After
this unit, Students will be able to:
v Describe Berry’s model for
identity development
v Tell the main perspective of
social identity
theory and describe the “3-stage” process of perception. This will
also entail the ability to distinguish between categorization and stereotyping
(more on this in the next set of notes!).
v Outline the characteristics
that an identity has. Some of these echo the main points of cultural theory of
identity (CTI refers to communication
theory of identity. See separate notes. Hecht, Collier, & colleagues);
e.g. avowal
v. ascription,
aspects, nature of cultural identities, intercultural communicator competence
[class notes]
o
Strength (=
salience + centrality)
o
Salience
o
Scope (CTI)
o
Centrality
o
Intensity (CTI)
o
Regard (CTI:
“relationship” aspect: feelings associated with an identity)
o
Content (CTI:
“content” aspect—thoughts, behaviors associated w/identity)
v Explain the main ideas of communication theory of
identity: [Note: There is a nice on-line reading, but Milner site is down
so I cannot access the URL. I will summarize this Tuesday morning or so, but
the above link gives a rough idea about the theory.]
o
Approach to research
o
Views of reality
Theorizing Identity
[Transition]:
Beyond the basic terms, many writers have taken to describing the different
approaches and feelings of identity. As noted in my own presentation above,
many recent writers do not expect people to act according to a given identity
at any given time. However, just as there are different approaches to culture
and to intercultural communication, we can expect that there are different ways
to think about identity as it pertains to research. Let me illustrate these
with the notion of gender and sex identities (the same could be applied to the
notion of African American, Filipino-American, Southern Baptist, or Tau Kappa
Epsilon identities).
I.
Metatheoretical approaches to Identity
As we think
about identity and how to understand it, we must first realize that there are
several different ways that we can understand identity, and different scholars
tend to treat it differently. Borrowing language from our unit on “paradigms”
in communication research, we can see that scholars might take one of three (or
four) approaches to an identity, be that “sex/gender,” “race,” or some other
identity.
Finally, we will
see that the approach one takes to identity is linked to the way one sees
intolerance, because identity-based intolerance is inherently
linked to how we see our own identities and the identities of others.
That is, to understand intolerance, we must first understand identity.
A. Scientific:
Treats
identity as a variable that can other variables such as communication style or
response to mediated messages. For example:
Ø Men and women differ in
terms of the types of interruptions they use in conversations (sex is IV; type
of interruption is DV)
Ø Women’s self-image is more
affected by magazine advertisements than that of men (sex is IV; self-image is
DV)
B. Humanistic/interpretive:
This view
is more likely to either interpret the perspective of a different group or
might even interpret a specific manifestation of identity. It would tend to see
gender as a social construction (also, would focus more on “gender” than
“sex”).
Ø How do teen girls construct
the notion of femininity through telephone “boy talk”?
Ø How does the representation
of women in South American telenovelas change through the decades?
C. Critical: This perspective treats the
social construction of gender (and sometimes even race, as in Rakow & Wackwitz, 1998) as a
struggle between groups or as marginalizing some over others. Again, the actual
research can be either scientific or humanistically
focused.
Ø How are women portrayed in
Christian, rap, country, and rock videos (IV: sex; DV: categories of
representation)
Ø In what ways does
organizational communication expectations marginalize women’s speech patterns?
Ø How new (“empowering”) modes
of female relationship does the movie Thelma
and Louise offer?
D. Postmodern identities: This view would assume that
any given identity is not only a “site of struggle” or “contested site”
(critical), but that there are different, competing visions of any identity. This has two important implications
for seeing identities. First, we should not assume that there is any such thing
as an “African American” or a “gay” identity, but that each of these is
fragmented, with different ways of being “Black” or “gay” (the problem, as we
shall soon see, arises when people within the group assume that all Blacks or
all gays should act and behave in a certain way and begin telling others how to
act!). That is, each identity is “fragmented.” The second implication is that
each person’s identity (let’s say, gender identity) is also fragmented. The PM
view would not simply say that “gender” has changed over the last 100 years,
but that there is (and have been) different “discourses” of what it means to be
a woman. Any woman will be a result of those discourses, some telling her to
get a career, and others telling her to be a good mom, and others telling her
this, or that. In essence, PM would argue that the self, itself, is fragmented
and inconsistent because of these different discourses.
BTW, there had been a great debate among scholars in
different ethnic and sex groups. For example, among Blacks, Stuart Hall, an
Afro-Caribbean in Britain, has argued that we should not think of Black
ethnicity, but Black ethnicities, as there are many
different ways of conceptualizing and acting out one’s own Blackness—that is
not simply that individuals are different, but that there are different discourses
within the Black community of what “Blackness” should be like or about.
Molefi Kete Asante,
director of Black Studies at Temple University, strongly disagrees with this
approach, feeling that it hides the commonality among all Black people (not
only in the U.S. but in the worldwide African diaspora). More importantly, he
feels that this fragmented approach works against the political unity Blacks
could achieve by binding together.
II. Specific Theories: I
will here introduce three specific theories of social identity. These could
apply to gendered identities, sexual orientation, ethnic identitites,
or even those of smaller scope, like organizational or departmental identities.
Please think “broadly” about your definition of culture as you read these:
A. Social Identity
Theory (Wikipedia link):
This
theory, developed largely by Henri Tajfel & John
Turner, forms the basis of much of what Gudykunst
states, as well as the basis for almost every other intergroup theory we
consider in this course, so you should know the basics of the theory. In
essence, it states that:
1. Our self-concepts
are tied intricately to the groups to which we belong. Ex: If I were to fill out the sentence “I
am…” about 20 times, many of the indicators would be the groups of which I am a
member). If my “collective” self-esteem is low, this will impact how I see
myself. To deal with it, I will either distance myself from my group or make
efforts to improve my collective self-esteem.
2. We
tend to see others on a continuum from intergroup to interindividual.
Ex: The first time Marla comes to my office,
I am likely to see her primarily as a member of a group (graduate student,
non-traditional student, educator). As we interact over the semester or over
several semesters, I will see her more and more on individual terms. Notably,
in some cases, we want to think of others in terms of group membership only.
The military, for example, might use phrases or terms to de-individuate others—to see them only as
members of the outgroup. It is much easier to bomb
them to pieces that way. But Tajfel and Turner argue
that group belonging is, even in the most personal of relationships, present at
least to some level. The more I see someone on intergroup terms, the more
likely I am to treat the person using stereotypes or group-level expectations.



3. When we meet someone,
we go through a 3-stage process of cognition that allows for intergroup
comparison (I would like you to learn
these as I learned them—not as reflected in the Wikipedia site):
a. Categorization: The differentiation of people (or things)
into groups with similar characteristics. Categorization is a natural part of
life—we have to use it or we would go crazy. We would be eating tables and
dating flowers, because we would have no categorization for edible products or
potential romantic partners. At this level, when Marla comes into my office, I
first see her and place her into one or more categories (student,
non-traditional student, education major). There is nothing at this level
inherently good or bad about the category!
b. Evaluation: I identify
with some groups, but not others, and part of this pertains to how I feel about
my group (collective self-esteem). This is influenced by other groups. In this
case, I might have particular feelings, good or bad, about education majors. If
I have had negative experiences in the past (or if media paints education
majors in a positive light, or if I grew up with my parents telling jokes about
education majors), then I make a negative evaluation of Marla’s disciplinary
identity.
c. Comparison: Finally, I will compare Marla’s
group (education) and my group (communication) on some relevant dimensions,
such as value of scholarship, marketability, or income gained by graduating
majors. Typically, I will make the comparison in such a way that my group looks
better and Marla’s looks worse, because if (in my mind) I can make her group
look worse, then I will feel better about my own group.
3. Extending
the SIT Model:
a. Gudykunst
& Lim (1986). Gudykunst and Lim contended that Tajfel’s continuum model was too simple.
For example, they imagined that one could be low on both interpersonal and intergroup perception, such as when
one treats service personnel (e.g., waitresses/ waiters, secretaries, the
butcher) as a “non-person,” or as high on both interpersonal and intergroup,
such as in an interracial romance where one relates highly to the partner while
at the same time valuing her or his diversity:
c. Baldwin
& Hecht (2003). Baldwin (Baldwin & Hunt, 2002; Baldwin & Hecht, 2003) has
argued that even this model is too simple, as it “conflates” (blends together)
both intergroup and intercultural communication. They argue that intercultural communication (where real differences in values, beliefs,
behaviors, etc., impinge upon the interaction, regardless of the communicators’
awareness of the effect of culture) and intergroup communication (where communicators
perceive there to be differences, based on perceptions of in-groups, outgroups,
including stereotypes and prejudice) should be teased apart and treated
separately. Instead, Baldwin and Hecht conceive of interactions where:
·
One can perceive there to be
differences (for example, because the person looks different), when in fact
there are no real cultural differences (high intergroup, low intercultural). Or
·
One might perceive there to
be no differences, because the partners look alike and see each other from the
same group, when in fact, there are cultural differences they are not aware of
(such as from different regions of the U.S., or from urban and rural cultures).
They, instead, propose a 3-axis model. It is actually 3-dimensional, and is
difficult to draw on paper, but the dotted axis would be perpendicular to the
other three:
Intergroup

The main
point of this model is that any communication between two individuals has three
dimensions present, though the prevalence or importance of the specific
dimensions changes over the course of the relationship between the individuals
and even within a given interaction:
– Interpersonal: individual perception of
communicators, based on personal experiences
– Intercultural: real differences in
values, beliefs, behaviors, regardless of awareness
– Intergroup: perceived
differences between communicators based on group identity (e.g.,
in-group/out-group perception, stereotypes, prejudice)
B. Berry’s
Model of Cultural Assimilation: J. W. Berry introduced a model regarding
acculturation to apply to immigrant groups within a culture. The former model
proposed a single dimension (unidimensional) model, in which an immigrant moved
from her or his own culture, unacculturated to the new culture, through
“enculturation” to full acculturation.

Berry’s model—the one on the bottom of this figure (http://lass.calumet.purdue.edu/cca/gmj/OldSiteBackup/SubmittedDocuments/Fall2005/graduate/In-HoLee-%20Refereed.htm),
suggests that one should see both culture of origin and new culture on two
dimensions. I usually envision the two sides reversed—like this:
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Host
Culture |
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Own
Culture |
Low |
High |
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High |
Segregation |
Integration |
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Low |
Marginalization |
Assimilation |
Thus, one can be “bi-cultural”—highly adjusted in
both own and host cultures, or can be “marginal”—adjusted in neither. This
model has been applied in different ways by authors to both White and minority
identities in the United States (see Nance & Foeman chapter in the MN&F
reader if you want to know more detail or see citations to original authors).
Authors have come up to measure Black, Latino, and White identities, often
proposing a series of steps from initial contact to a point at which the person
can integrate skills and communication behaviors from both cultures equally.
(We will revisit this notion tomorrow! This model has the greatest relevance
for what we will do with it!).
This model, based in social psychology, has tended
to be used very scientifically. Specifically, what variables might predict if
one is segregated, assimilated, etc.? Some variables might include social
economic status, the social integration or segregation of groups within a
society, the permeability or solidness of boundaries between groups, the
linguistic strength (ethnolinguistic vitality) of a group (which would
discourage assimilation), and so on.
B. Communication Theory
of Identity [for corresponding Power Point, go here]
An optional on-line reading: If you want to know more
about the theory, you can read the first part of this chapter for a coverage of CTI (formerly called CTEI, for communication theory of ethnic identity).
The last part extends the study of identity to the notion of intolerance—our
ultimate point. But we will consider the two halves of the chapter separately: https://www.mlb.ilstu.edu/ereserve2/viewpdf.php?filename=JBCOMUNPAC.PDF
Citation:
Baldwin, J.
R., & Hecht, M. L. (2003). Unpacking
group-based hatred: A holographic look at identity and intolerance. In L. A.
Samovar & R. E. Porter (Eds.), Intercultural
communication: A reader (10th ed, pp. 354-364.). Belmont, CA:
Wadsworth
Introduction: Some other authors, starting
with the independent work of Michael Hecht and Mary Jane Collier (who later
worked together on the theory), have developed another perspective that is now
growing in popularity, especially in the communication field. The main focus of
this theory is not on how to predict communication with identity, but how groups
create an identity through communication. That is, the theory suggests
that identities
are both negotiated within a group—to determine what a particular identity
means, and negotiated within interaction between people of different
identities.
An example of the first case is that “Black”
identity is not static or unchanging, but the African American community
continues to use messages (mediated, interpersonal, rhetorical) to shape what
it means to be “Black.” Further, some would take the theory one step further (a
postmodern view—a direction the theory itself does not go) to contend that even
with the “Black” (or Latino, or Gay, or Deaf, or Amish) communities, there are
different discourses of what it means to be “Black,” with groups of
African Americans disagreeing with each other about what “Blackness” is or
should be. Non-Blacks also create discourses to determine what “Blackness” is
or should be. In this sense, identity is created communicatively, rather than
simply a “variable” to predict behaviors. The approach is more humanistic, though Hecht often adopts neither humanistic nor
scientific approaches in his work, but blends them.
But identity is also negotiated in the particular interaction, either between individuals of the same identity group, or individuals of different identity groups. In the same identity group, two individuals might see Blackness (etc.) differently. Both may feel that they are being “Black” and living out their Black identity as they see fit. But one disagrees with the other and tells her, “You’re just not Black enough,” or calls her an “Oreo” (Black on the outside, White on the inside). That is, the two individuals are “negotiating” their mutual identities in interaction. So also, a Black woman might go to the workplace and see herself first and foremost in her role identity as a business professional. But a co-worker can “frame” her through some comment either primarily as a woman (“You sure look hot in that dress, today!”) or more specifically as a woman of color (“What do you people think about the change in Affirmative Action laws?”). Either one disrespects the identity the woman seeks to claim in the interaction.
With this in mind, we can see that this theory
treats identity much more fluidly than a traditional social scientific
perspective. Here, briefly, are some assumptions and definitions
1. Assumptions:
A full list of assumptions, from Hecht, Collier, and Ribeau’s 1993 text, African American Communication, appears
below. This work is now in 2nd edition (Hecht, Jackson, &
Ribeau), and the theory has been updated as recently as 2005. Please see me if
you want a bibliography on this theory!
o
Ontology: Reality—specifically, the meanings and norms of social identities,
are “intersubjective.” That is, they are neither purely subjective (“each
person has her own view of gender”) nor strictly objective (“We can predict
people’s behavior with biological sex), but are, rather, created between people through
the exchange of messages (both mediated and face-to-face). This echoes
what you may have learned in early theory classes as the “symbolic
interactionist” approach. You will note in the “assumptions” of the theory
below that there are no predictive statements (A causes or leads to B).
Because of this, more traditional social scientists might not like to call this
a “theory.”
o
Epistemology: Because identities have
both a subjective and an objective component, scholars use either traditional
social scientific methods (surveys, open-ended questionnaires that are
quantified) or open-ended data collection (communication diaries, interviews)
to collect data. Data in some studies is analyzed statistically, and in other
studies with thick-description. We see an example of Hecht’s work in the
MN&F reader, where he applies the theory to the cultural identity of
Jewishness to a rhetorical analysis of Northern
Exposure. An example of Mary Jane Collier’s work can be seen at this
link. Still, most research begins at some point by asking people about
their identities through some open-ended means.
o
Human nature is seen as largely
voluntary. People make choices as to how they will enact their identity.
o
Axiology: The theory does address
social inequalities in a couple of senses:
o
Hecht and his colleagues (1993) argue that we must understand
Black/White communication within the social/historical/economical context of
400 years of history.
o
Mary Jane Collier, and later Hecht et al., talk about the tolerance of
accepting people in the identities in which they see themselves (see
“competence) below).
2. Some Key Terms:
o
Values, meanings,
norms: A
key focus of this theory has been understanding the values and norms of a
specific group of people. For example, the Hecht chapter suggests a strong
value of “community” for the Jewish community. Norms in this theory are
interchangeable with rules—different from the definition we have accepted so
far (okay—so different authors define terms different ways!)
o
Symbols, core
symbols, labels: Identity is negotiated and shared through symbols
(e.g., see Dwight Conquergood’s work on the “representing” practices of Chicago
street gangs). These can be visual symbols, like logos, colors, and so on, but
can also be key words central to a culture’s ethos, such as “freedom” for mainstream American culture. Cultures
often revolve around two or three very central themes or symbols, which the
authors call “core symbols.” Importantly, the authors note that the
labels one chooses may say something about how those people see themselves. Thus, one who sees oneself as Latina/o
may have a different set of values, meanings, and norms for expected behavior,
than someone who calls her or himself Mexican American, or Chicana/o, or
Hispanic.
o
Intercultural
Competence has been defined two ways.
One way is the ability for people in interaction to successfully negotiate
competing cultural values, meanings, and norms. The second, related to this, is
when the
identities that someone ascribes to others matches the identity that person
chooses (avows) for her or himself.
3. Characteristics of identity
A key contribution of this theory has been to bring
under one umbrella a variety of terms or dimensions upon which we can think
about our identities. Some of these include:
o
Strength (=
salience + centrality): The role an identity plays in one’s self-perception and behavior (my
own def). Very important: Centrality refers
to an identity that is always or usually
important to someone’s self-perception. Salience refers
to the contextual importance. Thus, someone who is Christian might carry that
identity with her or himself into every interaction, keeping it “in the front
of one’s mind” so to say; for that person, the identity has high centrality. For another person, the
identity might have low centrality, but when meeting a Jewish or Muslim person,
or when someone brings up a religious issue, the identity (among the many the
person might have in an interaction!) comes “to the front,” or becomes
“salient” in the interaction. It is important to note that each of us has
multiple, overlapping (and sometimes contradicting) identities: nationality,
organizational, sex or gender, race or ethnicity, political, religious,
interest or hobby group, etc. These are all understood to be shared
or social
identities—not whether I see myself as shy or friendly.
o
Scope (CTI) : The number of people that
share an identity. For example, the identity of Americans with a physical
disability is much greater than the identity of Hmong manicurists of Manitoba.
o
Intensity (CTI) : The degree to which one
expresses ones identity publicly. The theory suggests that we can experience
our identity at different levels: Personal (how we feel about the identity); dyadic (or interaction—how we express the
identity through our norms of speech or through talking directly about it); relational—how we express and negotiate our
identities in ongoing social contracts like romance or work relationships; and communal—how we remember an identity in our
collective “cultural” memories, such as through ritual. If one has high
intensity, one might express one’s identity quite openly—be “out” about one’s
identity. Someone in the same classroom or workgroup might have the same
identity, but prefer to keep it quiet, or even to “pass” as a member of the
dominant group. For an example of these, applied to Jewish identity, read
Golden, Niles, & Hecht (2002) in the MN&F reader.
o
Content and
Relationship Components: Following the same scholars who said that one “cannot not communicate”
(Watzlawick, Beavin, & Jackson, 1967), the authors suggest that our
identities have both content—the
specific norms or behaviors associated with an identity, such as how men are
supposed to cuss, belch, and fart—and a relationship
component (sometimes called “regard”): how we feel about our identity. Thus, two people might see themselves as
“geeks.” Both may agree what the identity means as far as characteristics
(content), but one might embrace the identity (positive regard) and the other
might dislike the identity (negative regard)
o
Avowed and
Ascribed identities: Not only do we have an image of our various identities, we also have an
image of the identities of others. One’s avowed
identity is the one that one claims (avows) in an interaction. An ascribed identity is one that we give
to someone else. A woman might come to the workplace and see herself as a
professional. But then if a man makes a harassing comment, he is treating her
in her identity as a woman (specifically, a sex object). So also, among people
of a given identity, one African American might enact her identity one way, and
another might say she is not “Black” enough. This simply means that one person
ascribes one Black identity the other person, but the person avows a different
Black identity. Competent
Communication occurs when the identity we avow to others matches the
identity that they claim in an interaction.
A
final point: The final point here is that the authors feel that in any given
interaction, some identities may be present most of the time (if they are more “central”),
but by what the people say in the interaction, other identities may become
“salient” while others recede. In addition, how each group conceives of its own
identity is created through ongoing communication, and is, thus, dynamic—always
changing.
Abstract of dissertation using CTI: http://digitalcommons.unl.edu/dissertations/AAI9826094/
Abstract of Northern
Exposure article using CTI: http://joc.oxfordjournals.org/cgi/content/abstract/52/4/852
Assumptions of the Communication
Theory of Ethnic Identity
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1 |
Identities have individual,
enacted, relational, and communal properties |
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2 |
Identities are both enduring and
changing |
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3 |
Identities are affective,
cognitive, behavioral, and spiritual |
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4 |
Identities have both content and
relationship levels of interpretation |
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5 |
Identities involve both subjective
and ascribed meanings |
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6 |
Identities are codes that are
expressed in conversations and define membership in communities |
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7 |
Identities have semantic
properties that are expressed in core symbols, meanings, and labels |
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8 |
Identities prescribe modes of
appropriate and effective communication |
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9 |
Identities are hierarchically
ordered meanings attributed to the self as an object in a social situation |
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10 |
Identities are meanings ascribed
to the self by others in the social world |
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11 |
Identities are a source of
expectations and motivations |
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12 |
Identities are emergent [in
interaction and context] |
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13 |
Identities are enacted in social
behaviors, social roles, and symbols |
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14 |
Identities emerge in relationship
to other people |
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15 |
Identities are enacted in
relationships |
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16 |
Relationships develop identities
as social entities |
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17 |
Identities emerge out of groups
and networks |
From Hecht, Collier & Ribeau (1993, pp. 166-168).
Summary: This theory served as a
pivotal link in the communicative study of identity. Many of our authors in the
MN&F reader and beyond cite this theory, as it turned us from a strictly
variable analytic approach to identity (e.g., predicting behaviors based on sex,
“race,” or some other identity) to a focus on how we create the identities
through communication. Further, it treats identity more fluidly and emergent,
rather than static, addressing a critique many had of prior studies of culture
and identity. One writer who used this approach as a bridge to his own theory
of identity and communication was Mark Orbe (1995).
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Thought box: § How do the different characters in the
opening scenes of Crash (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vaaREJ0au4w)
negotiate their identities? Discuss in terms of specific aspects of identity,
levels of identity, avowal and ascription, emergence of identity in
interaction, and so on. That is, explain
a segment of the video in terms of the communication theory of identity. § OR Tell about an interaction in your own
life when your identity became salient. Discuss the incident using CTI. |
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III. Applications of the Theories to Specific
Identities
1. What is
the difference between sex and gender?
o
Sex: biological difference
o
Gender: culturally enacted behaviors
expected of men and women
What are some traits
commonly expected of men and women?
a. The
existence of differences? The court is still out on whether there are
sufficient differences between men and women in terms of most communicative
behaviors. The problem is that there are a wide number of other factors
(status, level of relationship, topic, and so on) that might influence an
interaction. Much of the research on gender differences might note that there
is a “significant difference” between men and women on some variable. But this
only tells us that we know there is a
difference, not how large the
difference is. Perhaps, in terms of our “overlapping bell curves” from last
week, in some aspects, there is so much diversity within groups that, despite
an average difference, the difference
between any two specific individuals is not important.
Other complicating factors include that men and women seem to
talk differently to men then to women. Women, for example, use a louder voice
with men. Further, much of the research on men and women in the United States
is written as if all cultural groups within our borders share the norms. There
could be differences in the differences between women and men in Black, Latino,
certain Asian cultures and White culture.
The existence of gender differences is a debate that runs
across most disciplines today and cannot be resolved here. Still, we will speak
of some “general trends” of gender difference as summarized by some sources.
b. Why differences? Again—a hotly debated topic.
Some argue that the differences have a biological root, from women being
mothers or from human instinct. Many scholars are moving to the position that
the differences are based on “gender”—how society expects men and women to
act—rather than “sex,” including hormones, reproductive organs, and so on. A
related question is whether the differences are simply
cultural (men and women are like different “cultures”) or
whether there are power implications: Do gendered differences in
communication work against women’s power? Some feminists take the stance that
they do. They argue that by using more passive communication styles (tag
questions, hedges when giving opinions, and so on), women are yielding power in
interaction to men; other recent feminists disagree. Still, many wonder whether
women’s communication styles work against them in the workplace (the woman who
is passive or relational does not get anything done, but the one who is
assertive and direct is a “bitch”). The managerial literature is mixed on which
style benefits women in the workplace. We will say more about feminism later
on.
c. What differences? Scholars
have turned up a wide array of differences. For example, Mulac and his
colleagues have determined 13 verbal cues that, if you knew them, would allow
you to predict a public speaker’s sex—from a written transcript only--with
about a 97% probability, regardless of the age of speaker (from 13 to 100), and
regardless of topic. These include things such as vocalized pauses (um, er—used
more by men) and fillers (like, y’know—used more by women), grammatical errors
(men), presentation of both sides of a position before making a point (women),
and so on. Other research has found differences cross-culturally in distance:
Men sit further apart than women, though in some cultures two men are much more
likely to touch or even hold hands as friends then two women (giving support to
the “gender” argument).
Some writers have tried to summarize these differences. For
example, Deborah Tannen suggests that men tend to seek report
(telling the “facts” as they see them, including being right) and women, rapport (maintaining connection, even in the
face of disagreement). Or, in other words, men seek competition
and women cooperation. This difference explains
many (stereotypical) behaviors:
o
Men don’t ask for directions—admits weakness. So also, “big boys don’t
cry”
o
Men interrupt to take the turn or shift the topic; women interrupt
(more) to continue the turn or give feedback.
o
Men tend to adopt a less face-to-face posture and use more space; women
tend to be more nonverbally involved (e.g., tighter body angle in
conversations)
o
Men’s “listener-response relevant moments” (um hum, nods) indicate
agreement; but women’s indicate “tracking” with the other speaker
o
Men’s stories tend to be about being “one up” among the others (the
“big fish” stories); women’s are more likely to admit their role in making a
mistake, as this establishes connection with the others
o
Men’s relationships often revolve around activities; women’s
relationships are said to be about “talk”
o
Men like conflict—women don’t prefer it. But we would modify this: Men
like ideational
conflict (who’s right? What’s the best policy); but women seem more likely to
initiate relational conflict. Is this because they like it? Probably
not—they’re just willing to do it to maintain the relationship. Some feminists
argue, thus, that women end up doing the “shitwork” of relationships.
Sandra Bem has worked to develop a measure of masculine and
feminine gender. This “sex-role inventory,” while not the only measure out
there, has been used by many. Many will use this scale to make predictions
about gender, but where they are not as interested in one’s biological make-up
but in terms of how one sees oneself in terms of typically masculine or typically
feminine behaviors. Someone who is high on both types of traits is said to
be androgynous (from Greek words for man and
women respectively); someone who is low on both is called undifferentiated.
The first part of Jandt’s chapter discusses gender
differences around the world.
Need a break: Take Bem’s Sex-Role Inventory on-line! http://www.okcupid.com/tests/take?testid=9417365772332679709
2. In review of paradigms: If we wanted to look at
gender or sex from three (or four) perspectives, we would approach it totally
differently!
o
Scientifically: We would either use
biological sex as a predictor variable to predict how men and women communicate
differently (e.g., in preferred conflict resolution styles), or we might use
psychological gender to see if those who are more masculine or more femininely
oriented prefer certain levels of directness in making requests. We could also
look at things that would lead one to adopt a more masculine or feminine gender
style, such as parental communication styles, media preferences, and so on.
o
Humanistically: We would not be interested
in sex as much as gender. We would see everyday interaction as “doing gender,”
re-creating gender day-by-day. We would probably believe that what it means to
be a man or woman today is in some ways different and other ways similar to
what it was 50 (or 5) years ago. We would see communication as creating gender,
rather than sex predicting communication.
o
Critically: We would be interested in
how communication behaviors or mediated texts frame or marginalize women (or
men)—such as use of terms “babe,” sexual harassment, or Big Johnson t-shirts
(“Co-ed naked firefighters: Find ‘em hot, leave ‘em wet!”).

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